Nak pergi holiday boleh

I really want to go on a vacation.but when is the best time for it.i also cant spend on unnecessary things like spending on a vacation (not like i've ever forked out my own money), more like i cant make mr boy to spend on a vacation now that we're a few months away from our wedding.

We were talking about going shopping in Bandung again during Chinese New Year, but there's a few factors that's stopping us:
1)of course we need to save money
2)my parents would be away during that time so i'll be in charge of feeding my hungry brother's mouth.
3)the house alarm has been going off at 5am and 1am on 2 separate nights last week.so we have to safe guard the house during my parents absence.
4)parents would say why cant we wait to go on a vacation during our honeymoon
and the list goes on and on...

Well the cons are outweighing the pros now.what pros,there isnt any..