B if u're reading this i want to tell u that KESAYANGANKU is not panggilan manja for our cat.u know what i'm talking about..
Its the 2nd last day of the year.what do i think about 2009..it has been Alhamdulillah gradually got better through out the year.the highlight of 2009 has of course been the day i got engaged which was on my 26th birthday..
This year my house got renovated for almost 4 months.My dad's initial plan was to extend the kitchen area but eventually the renovation project got bigger.I even got a bigger room.we suffered for these few months because honestly the house was not in a live in condition.imagine no kitchen for 4 months.it went on untill the fasting month..mom had to buy food everyday.we got sick of eating out.our fridge was in the hall.we ate out of paper plates and drank out of paper cups.the house was supposed to be ready in the mid of ramadhan ,tapi biasalah mesti delay.nevertheless the contractor managed to complete the house on the eve of raya.
A few good friends are getting married really soon.i love weddings.especially the nikah ceremony.like u can never not cry when u witness a nikah..taktaula macam mana when its my turn.
December has been honestly great.i'm feeling very much prepared to move forward and i really want to enjoy and appreciate the few remaining years that i have left to be a 20 something girl..
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
B if u're reading this i want to tell u that KESAYANGANKU is not panggilan manja for our cat.u know what i'm talking about..
Posted by Diyana at 8:17 PM
Monday, December 28, 2009
Alone in the office again..just waiting for 5.30pm to go back.cant wait to karcis.
I'm torn between attending my annual dinner or a friends solemnization on the 8th of January..i wouldnt mind just ditching the dinner but its....compulsory..
i'm thinking of excuses to give.i sooo wanna go to my friends nikah..it'll be much more fun then a boring company dinner.
So this 5th of january is my KESAYANGAN's 31st birthday..LOVE LOVE LOVE u B..
I seriously have no idea on what to get him this year..i've asked him once what he wanted for his birthday.. ada ke he said he wanted a new fax machine..soo unromantic and unthoughtful present. My baby's turning 31!cant believe it..
'Cant wait to see u this thursday baby sayang..sorry i marah u masa i tgh tido last nite.tulah, siapa suruh call lambat.hehehe..'
Posted by Diyana at 5:06 PM
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Today, dad bought me a notebook.All of a sudden he asked me if i needed a new notebook.Of course i said YES!. we went to PJ's Digital Mall.Yey..dah lama dah my old lappy dah gone case..
Anyway, currently typing this entry on my new notebook.YeAy!..hehehe
This weekend so far has been very relaxing.went out the whole day yesterday with mom and aunts and cousins.Besides that, i have been lazing at home.tak keluar rumah n lepak with friends langsung.Boy is bz this weekend.he wanted me to come to melaka but i wasnt willing to take the chance getting caught in the highway with the traffic jam, due to the long weekend.
So i guess this weekend i wont be seeing my darling.But its seriously ok for me.dah biasa dah.i'll insyallah see him next thursday for new year's eve.Still have not decided what to do to celebrate the new year..dinner maybe?
Just watching fireworks with him will do.doing nothing as long as i'm with him would be everything.2010 is around the corner.What is my new year's resolution..hmmm
JUST TO BE A BETTER DAUGHTER,SISTER,FIANCE,FRIEND etc..
You dont know what you've got till its gone-must always remember this
Posted by Diyana at 11:12 PM
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
This is my doorgifts insyallah.within the budget given by dad and approved by all the aunts.Will put in an egg wrapped in netting and stuffed into the glass.(The egg will fit nicely in it)
Its made of glass.it can be used as a candle holder or just a decoration.You can but ur clips and pins etc too..
At the place that i found this item, there were 7 colours all together.but mom and I have decided to go with of course our theme colour- fuschia pink and silver.Pink would be for the ladies and silver for the men..
We bought 200 pcs already and have paid for the booking fee for the remaining 1300 pcs..will have to go pick it up in stages or might have to borrow boy's car to fit in all the remaining pcs.
So i've settled everything for the nikah and reception door gifts.we have even bought fuschia pink pouches for the kids.yeYyy!!
Posted by Diyana at 11:22 AM
Last friday, me and my friends gathered for a friends hen's nite.We had dinner at a croatian restaurant at Solaris mont kiara.After dinner, went straight back home because boy was on the way .After reaching,I accompanied my darling to have supper .By the time we got back was already about 3am.And still he didnt let me go straight to bed.Had to teman him watch tv downstairs till about 4 am.
I was damn tired and sleepy because it was way past my bedtime.The next morning i woke up at 9.30 and scrambled to get ready.(Mom made an appointment with the designer at 10.30 am at Jakel).I went downstairs to wake boy up, but mom and dad said boy had already shower,bought breakfast and now he tertido balik.
Met with the designer.she's young and she just got married herself.She showed me a few sketches.After choosing one of the sketches and incorporating my ideas with it,we started to hunt for the suitable materials.
Oh i so so love my kain and the design..We're planning to take boy's family to Jakel to get all the wedding materials too.Mom's family has known the Jakel family since way back in Segamat.So, mmg they gave us like very reasonable prices.
Emma our designer was introduced to us by Kak Farah,(menantu Jakel)..She loves Emma's work and highly recommends her.Emma used to be Radzuan Radziwill's assistant like Kudin etc..Mmg she charges very reasonably considering its including shoes and veil..
Even mom decided to hire emma to make her baju.Will have to meet up with Emma again soon to send my nikah material and mom's material.
Yesterday i called Liza, Saidatul's assistant to see if Kak Sai's available for my wedding,but no luck.she's still bonded with Brunei royalty, and apparently there's a birthday celebration in the palace during my dates.Kak Liza is also unavailable because she would be in confinement.Syg betul..both of them are good.
Posted by Diyana at 10:22 AM
Monday, December 14, 2009
Cant wait for friday..this thursday i'm planning to take the day off.have something in mind to do with my mom.(she's been so supportive and understanding through out this tough period)..
Last friday, all of us(cousins ans aunt's )went to my cousins new condo at mont kiara.the place is called Casa Kiara..we had lunch there.loved the house and they have decorated it well..they have been wanting to move in to their new place a long time ago,but my aunty has been coming up with excuses just to make them stay at her place longer.they've been married for just over a year.and they've been staying at my aunts place ever since..so they are like so eager to move out.
For dinner that night,we gathered and ate at my house, since my cousin farah won vouchers worth of rm200 from kfc and pizza hut...mom made sirap bandung,another aunt bought cakes for dessert.it was so much fun.
On saturday ,mom and dad went back to tampin.me and my brothers went back there yesterday morning for a day trip(not even half a days trip).we got there at about 9am.had breakfast with atok n wan.the night before,mom called and informed me that she and dad was bringing my grandparents to a baba nyonya restaurant in Malacca.what she failed to inform me was that she called boy and ask for directions to the place.
(i'm currently giving boy the silent treatment due to our previous bickering)
even my mom knew that, and how could she just call him up .this shows how much my parents love boy.
anyway,boy was supposed to join them for dinner,but he couldnt make it ,so he invited my parents and grandparents to his house.according to mom,my atuk didnt want to go back because he was enjoying the berborak sessions with boy's family..
HOW COULD THEY GO TO BOY'S PLACE WITHOUT ME
On saturday, Ida called and told me that a belt and wallet set is on sale in one of the stores in pavillion.
immediately after reaching home from tampin yesterday,me, mom and darry prayed,changed and drove off to pavillion..my my,all the stores there are on sale..bought boy's hantaran wallet and belt.yey!!a VERY VERY GOOD price for the belt and wallet set i must say..
I LOVE CHRISTMAS SALES!!
Have my eye on this handbag but,i'll just have to wait and coax boy to get it for me..hahaha(in my dreams)
mom is planning to get rooms for us this weekend in one of the hotels in bukit bintang.it would be just like a vacation , but its just that it would be in Kl itself..hahaha.we plan to stroll along jln bukit bintang and go look at the christmas decorations along the street..this year we're unable to go on our family trips because dad has to work and he's unable to take leave.so just staying in a hotel for the weekend in kl would do it for my mom.(kesian btol my mom ni)
Talking about that, i did promise her yesterday that i would help find out about the hotels ..so ok la.bye
Posted by Diyana at 2:35 PM
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
this weekend : zouk out in singapore
Menyesal pulak pegi singapore 2 weeks ago.but actually i'm done with partying.(for now Insyallah)..would rather stay home with my cat and family..
my cousins are going for the party,i'm tempted but i have to save money ..
last sunday, i went to the FJ Benjamin warehouse sale.got some panties from La Senza..10 for Rm50...cheap kan!
Afer that we went to Armada hotel to check out the Coach warehouse sale,but we got there at 3pm and before entering the parking lot,there were signboards saying
"coach warehouse sale SOLD OUT!!"
I really want to go on a short vacation..anywhere local would do..just want to fill in one of the few long weekends that's coming up..i was thinking of penang.but the 4-5 hours drive to penang ,sitting with my brothers in the car was a big turn off.
This friday is a public holiday for selangor..so yeay!!
no plans so far, but surely 80 percent of the time would be spent just lazing at home..
Posted by Diyana at 1:13 PM
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Shopping trip in singapore was great.Got home at 9 pm last night.i was relieved that i found boy's hantaran shirt and shoes.lega sgt..this time around, most of the hours spent in s'pore was for shopping..Orchard road was full.there's so many shopping malls in orchard road.not to mention vivo city where i got my last minute charles and keith bag and mom's shoes..
For boys' hantaran stuff, he chose an Armani long sleeved shirt..it was on sale for half the price and just bought plain working shoes from Clarks.
He bought me Kate moss's perfume set..from my observation,shopping in singapore is way better because of the wide selection and they have brands that are not found in m'sia.tu yg best sgt tu..
shopping malls are connected to each other via their underpass.
we also went to Mustafa in little india.Mustafa is a 24hour wholesale place.u can basically get everything there.after getting our stuff from mustafa we had north indian food at a restaurant across mustafa.the food was so good especially the butter chicken..That night we slept at 3am and we woke up at 8am the next day..and the shopping spree continued after our breakfast in geylang.
yesterday before leaving singapore which was planned to be at 2;30pm, ended up with us leaving at 5;15pm..this is because we made a final shopping pit stop. at Vivo city.it was well worth it!!!
I wanna go shopping in singapore again!!even if i cant shop,just walking along orchard road with all the pretty decorations would be good enough.
Posted by Diyana at 11:46 AM
Thursday, November 26, 2009
I'm in the office ALONE,the bosses has left and the whole floor is empty..yey!!
so,of course i would go on facebook and open my blog..
Tomorrow is hari raya haji.wont be going back to my dad's hometown.This year,my family korban lembu kat kampung my aunt's driver.i think its in kuala selangor..we probably wont be doing much besides gathering with close aunt's/uncles and cousins tomorrow.
mom brought back a sample for our doorgift from nilai 3.memanglah i tak berkenan with that item.the workmanship was bad.we have agreed to keep on looking.susahla.hari tu dah berkenan,takde stock pulak.but i still LOVE the nikah door gift..i want to reserve one for myself.
Posted by Diyana at 4:28 PM
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
yesterday,upon reaching home,mom told me that the supplier of the doorgifts could not give us the confirmation that it would be available in april next year.so, we've decided to search for a new item.luckily, there's enough of the doorgifts for the nikah.(note:nikah and reception doorgifts are two different items)..its already safe in my house..
of course i'm frustrated.the thing was nice and affordable..so today my mom's going to nilai 3..hopefully she finds something nice and bring back a sample for me to see.this friday, i'm going to singapore with boy ,my brother and cousin.i'm hoping to get boy's hantaran shoes and shirt..
banyak sgt benda that has to be done for a wedding to take place.i'm starting to get a bit fed up and just couldnt care less.can i just marry the love of my life without all this hassle.i really pity boy.he has to fork out alot of money for this wedding.he has no father to help him out..
i seriously dnt mind a simple wedding.i really hope he wont get stressed out and feel as if this is a burden..kesiannya tunang i....
Posted by Diyana at 9:42 AM
Monday, November 23, 2009
My mom called me when i was in the office and told me that she found something to be given as our door gifts .she was so excited and said to me:
"u'll definitely love it,and it's within the allocated budget"
from then on, i couldnt concentrate on work, and kept on imagining how the thing would look like.
got home and sure enough, my mom was waiting to show it to me...I LOVE IT.
she even found a door gift for the nikah..I LOVE IT TOO.
even surprising, when my dad saw both items, he didnt object and agreed withount any questions.
even though its not much,i still love it cause its just simple.thought of posting the pictures of the items but, then again it wouldnt be a surprise to everyone anymore if i did so.
I've always wanted to give something that people could use after the wedding..NOT SOMETHING THT PPL WOULD THROW OUT IMMEDIATELY UPOn RETURNING HOME..
i.e:decorations,ceramics,candle holder,jewellery boxes(not paper/cardbox)and lots more.. what my mom found today could actually be useful and handy in the household.
.we shall wait for the big day in july alrite..!!
Posted by Diyana at 8:38 PM
Saturday, November 21, 2009
I do hate it at times.i hate it when boy is too bz to even come see me during the weekends.it makes me a bit depressed.it makes me feel so lonely.after a tiring week , all i look for is to spend time with boy.its not that my life only revolves around him, but all my girlfriends are busy with their own family/husband/bf..
it sucks that i dont have a sister to talk to.it's even worst during the weekends when both my younger brother's are not around like this particular weekend.BORING.
it's depressing enough that i cant see boy, but must it be so quiet n dull at home too.
its 6pm and i just got up from my evening nap.and u know how naps can make u cranky.so i'm feeling agitated,cranky and a bit depressed at how my saturday is going..
Thank god for my cat zara..SERIOUSLY.she's my rock.
thank god i'm planning to go to singapore again next week..
planning to get some hantaran stuff.
hopefully i could squeeze in a pair of shoes an a shirt ..
Its raining and it adds on to this gloomy mood.
well, its just another depressing weekend.what more is there to say..
Posted by Diyana at 5:52 PM
Saturday, November 14, 2009
padan muka to myself.2 days ago air asia started its yearly giveaway free 1 million seats.And so i browsed thru the web page in order to look for tickets for our honeymoon.been going thru and fro on the dates just to get the cheapest seats.so,everytime i wanted to click pay,i would hesitate and think to myself " am i sure i want to go to this place for my honeymoon?"..3 times i ended up just closing the page..(each time i had to look for different dates than the previous coz the previous tix price went up)
Since insyallah boy's side would be on the 24th of july,which is on a saturday.we could only probably leave for our honeymoon maybe from the 28th of july and get back on the 11th of august THE LATEST!!!.BECAUSE FASTING MONTH starts on the 12th of august if i'm not mistaken...so i'm restricted to this time period..of course i could wait until raya,but by that time, dah tak pengantin baru kot?
this morning i checked air asia's webpage again ,the prices has escalated and i seriously have to make a decision to just go probably on the 5th of august and get back on the 11th..i want to get this over with because before we know it ,i would be so busy with wedding preparations and that we would never have the chance to have our honeymoon..
Knowing myself and mr boy..we love going on vacations,so i think i really should just get the tickets and be at peace..will worry about our lodging later..just get the bloody tickets Diyana!!
Oh yes,i'm probably going to the wedding exhibition in PWTC today with boy..maybe this time i could help boy pick out cards and other things for his reception..kesian dia,i tak tlg pon for his side..dah la he's a guy,mmg la he doesnt know and not interested in all of this wedding preparation..well i guess i have to help him out.
Posted by Diyana at 8:20 AM
Saturday, November 7, 2009
back fr dinner.i'm in the hotel room.thank god there's FREE wifi.tu yg berblogging kejap.i ate briyani again for dinner.best. Tp dh muak.dnt know wht to eat tomorrow.after checking out tomorrow i hv to tapau murtabak for future MIL n my parents.n after tht we're headed straight to melaka b4 i continue my journey back home.
Posted by Diyana at 10:49 PM
i'm in singapore with fiance.first trip together after the engagement.hotel room is super nice n had lunch at arab st..going off to dinner now.yey.
Posted by Diyana at 9:09 PM
Friday, October 30, 2009
after making numerous phone calls to Boy and texting him like a million times.finally he called me.but i wasnt by my phone.then late last night,we were texting each other.i wanted to call him,but i didnt wanna push it..
So,i'm feeling more alive now that Boy is slowly giving in to me.Yey!!
Oh yes,and last night i followed my mom to Putrajaya .ziarah kematian.kawan my mom punya daughter..she was 23.kidney failure..they detected it this year,and there was not much that the doctors could do.When i saw muka jenazah smalam,her face was calm and also clean ..she must have been a good daughter in her life.she was studying medicine in bandung..she was already in her 4th year.but God loves her more,and took her life at a young age.
Makes you realise that life on earth is only temporary,and if you get off track..MasyaAllah..
Posted by Diyana at 10:12 AM
Sediakan satu folder untuk anda menyimpan dokumen peribadi anda.
Sebaiknya sediakan dokumen dibawah:
• Salinan Kad Pengenalan (min 10)
• Salinan Surat Beranak (min 3)
• Salinan Surat Nikah Ibubapa (min 3)
• Salinan Kad Pengenalan wali(min 5)
• Gambar bersongkot/bertudung saiz pasport (min 5)
• Salinan Sijil Kursus pra perkahwinan (min 5)
• Perintah bertulis dari mahkamah mengenai wali hakim, poligami/ nikah
bawah umur dan lain-lain.
• Kebenaran kedutaan jika warga asing.
• Kebenaran majikan bagi anggota Polis dan Tentera.
• Surat Pengakuan bujang dari majikan (lelaki sahaja)
• Surat cerai, jika pernah berkahwin
Semua Jabatan Agama Negeri telah mewajibkan bakal pengantin untuk
menjalani Ujian Kesihatan HIV. Ujian mestilah dilakukan di Hospital Kerajaan
dan Klinik Kesihatan Kerajaan. Ujian di hospital dan klinik swasta TIDAK
diterima. Borang ujian boleh didapati di Pejabat Agama. Harga borang dalam
lingkungan RM5.00-RM10.00 setiap satu.
Keputusan ujian adalah SULIT. Sampul surat ujian hanya boleh dibuka oleh
Jabatan Agama Negeri sahaja.
Bagi individu yang keputusanya HIV POSITIF, nasihat dan kaunseling akan
Permohonan Kebenaran Berkahwin.
Terdapat banyak jenis Permohonan kebenaran berkahwin. Pastikan diri anda
dalam kategori yang betul. Jenis Permohonan seperti berikut.
Perhatian: Peraturan-peraturan berkahwin adalah berbeza di
antara Jabatan Agama Negeri berlainan. Pastikan anda
menyemak dahulu dengan Jabatan Agama berdekatan. Panduan di
bawah ini sebagai rujukan anda sahaja
a) Kategori 1: Lelaki dan perempuan dari satu Negeri dan akan bernikah
berkahwin di Negeri yang sama. (Contoh: Lelaki dan perempuan dari
Kuala Lumpur dan akan bernikah di Kuala Lumpur)
b) Kategori 2: Lelaki dari Negeri berlainan dan akan bernikah di Negeri
tempat perempuan. (Contoh: Lelaki dari Kuala Lumpur, perempuan
dari Negeri Sembilan dan akan bernikah di Negeri Sembilan)
c) Kategori 3: Lelaki dan perempuan dari Negeri berlainan dan bernikah
di Negeri yang lain. (Contoh: Lelaki dari Kuala Lumpur, perempuan dari
Negeri Sembilan dan akan bernikah di Selangor)
d) Kategori 4: Berkahwin dengan warga asing
Kategori 2: Lelaki dari Negeri berlainan dan akan bernikah di
Negeri tempat perempuan. (Contoh: Lelaki dari Kuala Lumpur,
perempuan dari Negeri Sembilan dan akan bernikah di Negeri
1. Dapatkan borang kebenaran berkahwin di Pejabat Agama Negeri
terdekat atau berjumpa dengan Imam Jurunikah di Masjid berdekatan
kariah anda. Satu borang untuk setiap seorang lelaki dan perempuan.
2. Pihak lelaki mengisi borang tersebut.
3. Dapatkan pengesahan bujang dari majikan. (lelaki)
4. Dapatkan pengesahan anak kariah dari Imam di masjid kariah anda.
5. Hantarkan borang Permohonan lelaki ke Pejabat Agama Negeri dan
mohon ‘Kebenaran Nikah Luar Negeri’.
6. Pihak perempuan akan mengisi borang.
7. Kenal pasti wali anda dan penuhkan ruang untuk wali di dalam borang.
8. Pastikan salinan dokumen yang dikehendaki cukup.
9. Lampirkan bersama borang dari pihak lelaki yang lengkap diisi.
10. Hantar borang ke Pejabat Agama. Pejabat agama akan
menimbangkan permohonan anda. Jika tidak diluluskan, Pejabat
Agama akan menghubungi anda untuk menyelesaikan masalah yang
11. Jika diluluskan, simpan Kebenaran Perkahwinan anda di tempat yang
selamat. Imam Jurunikah akan menyemaknya sebelum upacara
Posted by Diyana at 9:57 AM
Thursday, October 29, 2009
i have not spoken to Boy for 3 days!!..
i guess he is mad that i used awful2 words to him last week.now the term darah manis is really bothering me.he has never been this mad at me..
i know i should've change after being engaged but he sure knows how to tick me off..
sometimes he irritates and throw painful accusations towards me..
for him to want me to change to a better person,i think he should have played the right role and maybe change.
Boy out of all the people in the world should understand me the most and TRUST me..
he really has his trust issues..i'm really sad,i'm not well and i miss him so much..
at the back of my mind i keep on thinking " what if he wants to break it off"
oh my,i surely hope he is still thinking properly..
org darah manis senang influenced by setan!!
i can accept if he is teaching me a lesson but what if he leaves me..
i'm worried,scared and i feel that life is at a standstill till we're back to normal..
Posted by Diyana at 1:06 PM
Saturday, October 24, 2009
the nikah pelamin that i booked.cheap sgt!
Part of the card (the piece of hard paper that's supposed to be inside the hard cover which has all the information of the wedding)
this is the outer hard cover(but this isnt the envelope).u slide through the piece of paper in the picture above, through the right side of the outer cover.
I'm glad that i've placed the booking for my nikah pelamin and also my wedding cards..anyway i went to the wedding exhibition again with my parents in the evening,and they agreed with my choice of pelamin and they helped pick out the card design..
so i'm supposed to follow up with the pelamin and the card person in charge in probably april.
yES!!2 things can be checked off the to look for/do list
Its true what they say about wedding exhibition-u can save a whole lot of money!!
Posted by Diyana at 8:51 PM
Just got back from having dinner with the girls.had a nice time.we ate dinner at monte's in BSC and adjourned to WIP or whip into place(formerly known as Work In Progress).
Food at monte's was good. We had-salad with smoked salmon n nachos for appertiser,i ate cajun chicken,asma-lamb shank n dzue-spaghetti olio(a bit salty).besides dzue's dish,everything else was delicious.the prices were really not that bad...
Earlier in the day,i went to the pameran pengantin with asma.i was amazed at the bridal packages.way cheaper than i budgeted for everything.i saw a pelamin nikah tht i like.i'm thinking of taking my mom there tomorrow to get her approval n hopefully just put the deposit.well rite this moment i'm missing boy..and i cant fall asleep.really hope to see him this weekend..
Posted by Diyana at 3:09 AM
Friday, October 23, 2009
I was reading someone's blog ,and saw that there's a wedding exhibition going on in Plaza Alam Sentral,Shah Alam..it starts on the 22nd to the 25th of October.
Is it really worth going to?
i dont know but i am keen in finding out..Asma has agreed to accompany me.(thanks asma,if i tau u curi2 baca blog i,i block u,hehe)
hopefully the exhibition would give me guidance on how to plan a wedding.
Other than that,the plan for today is to have Asma's birthday dinner in Bangsar with Dzue..yey!
About the issues that has been going on ,hmm...well just hope for the best..i think that someone has regretted and learned it the hard way.
Posted by Diyana at 9:40 AM
Thursday, October 22, 2009
What happens to you when someone you look up to, dissapoints you..
you trust the person to know whats right and wrong.
but it seems that its just typical of this particular gender to be foolish..it changes my perception towards trust..you can never EVER give your trust 100%.
nevertheless i still respect and love the person..because..........
ALL of us are bound to make mistakes.we are all only human.
what else can i say..there's only so much i can say and advice,
but at the end of the day I must remember that there is a limit to this.
After all i have a long journey to go in life..
May Allah protect,guide us and bring us happiness and joy.
Posted by Diyana at 12:10 PM
Monday, October 19, 2009
I've been wanting to write down about how boy approached me in 2002.well,i'll try my best to remember..
It was i guess in early september 2002.i was still studying in malacca.one day, i got a phone call..i answered and this guy on the line asked me if i had called his number before because according to him,my phone number was in his phone bill..i said to him no of course.then he said nevermind then..then he called again the next day asking the same thing..i started to get annoyed.i gave him a piece of my mind..and then he confessed..he got my number from his friend who happens to be my friends bf at the time..he said he saw me and my friends at a club with my friends bf ..so he asked for my number from my friends bf..
At first i just looked at the situation as a pathetic guy trying to woo me.. i just played along..note in mind i've never known how he looks like because we just spoke on the phone..untill one day he offered to give me lift back to malacca since he was in Kl.i accepted his offer..i know it was not wise to accept a lift from a considered stranger,but maybe at the time i was still young and naive.the moment i saw him i thought to myself-(buruknya mamat ni and what have i gotten myself into)before leaving,my dear friends asked for his IC to jot down his particulars(JUST IN CASE)..and from then on he started to ask me out..i remembered he used to top up credits for my hp..and he would purposely say that he accidentally bought hotlink credit(he was using celcom at the time)..really cute the way he wanted to make his mission subtle..
From then on my friends labelled him as Mr.top up.hehhee.
then our friendship grew from there...at first i couldnt believe he was being possessive even though we have not declared anything and later on he actually forced me to be his gf..i really wasnt ready to be in another relationship at the time,but considering he was a great friend/scandal, i reluctantly accepted..
Alhamdulillah the love grew and now 7 years later i am glad i chose to be with him..
its funny how people meet and fall in love ...you really cant go out and look for LOVE.because love comes in the most unexpected and unpredictable way.That is what we in malay call 'jodoh and takdir'..
I'm glad i didnt have to kiss a lot of frogs to find my true love..
Posted by Diyana at 12:45 PM
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
PAKEJ INI DITAWARKAN UNTUK TEMPAHAN PADA SIANG HARI SAHAJA DENGAN HIDANGAN SECARA BUFFET DARI JAM 12.00 TENGAHARI HINGGA JAM 3.00 PETANG.
PAKEJ ISTIMEWA RAJA SEHARI INI MERANGKUMI :
Penyediaan Makanan dan Minuman Secara Buffet Di Dewan Merak Kayangan. Masa Hidangan diantara 12.00 Tengahhari Hingga 3.00 Petang.
Sebuah Pelamin Khas untuk Bersanding dan Bergambar Kenangan Bersama Keluarga.
Hiasan dan Gubahan Bunga segar untuk Meja Pengantin / Meja Utama (Meja Makan Berdamai) dengan Bilangan Maksima 10 Orang Sahaja.
Penyediaan 2 Meja VIP Secara Berhidang untuk Tetamu Khas. (Tambahan RM100.00 Semeja untuk Tambahan Meja Berhidang yang Berikutnya)
Sebuah Gerbang Perkahwinan di Pintu Masuk Utama Ke Dewan Persandingan.
Tambahan Tiga (3) Jenis Lauk Untuk Meja Pengantin. (Akan ditentukan oleh Felda D’Saji)
Lagu Lagu Pengantin Baru akan dimainkan melalui CD dan Pitar Rakaman untuk Memeriahkan Majlis Perkahwinan.
Public Address / P.A System untuk Berucap dan kegunaan Juru Acara Majlis sahaja.
Tempat Letak Kereta Percuma untuk semua Tetamu Di Basment Dewan Merak Kayangan dengan Kawalan Keselamatan dan Lalulintas oleh Unit Polis Bantuan Felda.
Pakej Istimewa Raja Sehari ini ditawarkan Pada Harga RM30.00 Nett Seorang Dengan Bilangan Jemputan Minima 700 Orang Tetamu. Kadar berikutnya RM18.00 Nett Selepas bilangan Tersebut.
so...i have to add on fancy chair covers with the bow,and aisle flower stands.
Posted by Diyana at 1:10 PM
i love her wedding dress design..
Merak Kayangan Felda
light blue pelamin
(random source of pics )
Insyallah the plan that has been confirmed by both sides during the bertunang discussions is that our nikah,my reception and bertandang would be:
nikah:16 july 2010 (friday)
my reception:17 july 2010 (saturday)
boy's reception:24th july (saturday)
I was going through some blogs,and i stumbled upon one particular blog that says in the islamic calendar,the syaaban month is one of the good months to get married.and for 2010 the syaaban month starts on the 13th of july(tuesday)..Alhamdulillah..
Initially the plan for my nikah was supposed to be at night at my house.but after the bertunang event,we got very tired..that is even when my bertunang was held in the morning.so my parents has decided it would not be wise to have the nikah at night considering the next day is my reception..and we have to be at merak kayangan in the morning for the rehersals..at first i was a bit upset,but when i think about it,i was contempt with a morning nikah event.
the theme colour for my nikah would be peach..but of course i would be wearing white.For my nikah,i want both my good friends Asma and Dzue to be my pengapit..i want them to sit on the right and left of me during the akad nikah..i plan to make them wear the same material but with different individual designs.
I plan to tell boy that if its possible i want his sides to wear turqoise on the nikah day..it would be nice if all his nephews that were to carry the hantarans into my house to wear the exact same color and material.so it would look damn good in the pictures.
for my reception,the chosen colour is FUSCHIA pink.I would probably wear white again or silver.i havent decided yet because i have to wait for the designer's approval.but my dream is to have merak kayangan filled with fuschia pink on the 17th of july next year..i want a fuschia pink hand bouquet.i want white and fuschia pink flowers on my pelamin..i want fuschia pink ribbons for the chairs.
These are all just my dream and goals for my wedding..If it really happens the way i want it then Alhamdulillah and if not, insyallah i wouldnt make a big deal out of it.
Posted by Diyana at 11:22 AM
Monday, October 12, 2009
last friday night,all 17 of us including syikin's 2 year old daughter Sara gathered for sue's hen nite.the theme was pajama wear..
Thanks to farhana for hosting the party at her place ..it was a simple and fun night..there was a singing contest with the PS3 and followed by pictionary..
being us,most of the night was filled with our picture sessions..
sue is getting married in the end of the december but since she works in dublin(she was in m'sia for 2 weeks to prepare for her wedding) so we had to make it happen before she went back.i do hope she had fun!!
Posted by Diyana at 11:57 AM
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Thursday, October 8, 2009
To mr Boy,
i hope one day u'll read this and realise how much i love and i just cant live without u..i love you for so many reasons:
-you have been so caring..bila i sakit, u jaga..especially the day i got food poisoning in 2007 on my birthday.(u dont think i would remember kan,but i do),hingus i semua u lap ok,u tak pernah geli dgn i..
-you know when its time for me to get new things.(if you see i've been wearing the same clothes again and again,you know when its time to get my hair done etc)
-you encourage me to have time for my girlfriends.
-you always have been very forgiving..even if you get mad easily,but u cool down the next minute.(i understand u b and i accept that)
-you pamper me and the way u manjakan i like budak2(u suka nak timang2 i and suruh i do my silly dance move)
-you are a responsible man(u have been the head of your family ever since your father passed away-i'm impressed b,bukan senang nak jaga mak and adik beradik,anak2 sedara)
-you love your mom so much that if you're away from melaka,and you call up your mom and ask her if she has eaten,and if she hasnt,u wont have the appetite to eat.
-you care for my parents too,always make sure we bring back something for my parents whenever we go out.
-you know how to talk and behave around people(sometimes i think its a bit deceiving)
-you prooved that you could rise from nothing to the man you are now in your business(seriously from zero to alhamdulillah selesa skarang)
-you are so easy to pujuk,cakap dgn u manja2 skit terus u dah tak marah and merajuk,not like me(i must change from now on)
-you always want people to look highly upon me
-you cannot hear me saying i teringin la nak itu ini.u would do your best to provide me with everything.sometimes i think you take your responsibilities towards me way too serious.(macam i'm your daughter pulak)sweet sgt ok b.
-you are hardworking.everything you do has to do with how to improve our lives.
-you get jealous easily,like you think i'm so pretty ke apa.
anyway,can u feel and see it now.
i'm sorry if i'm too bossy and if i'm not supportive in the things you're into lately..i've always been to busy pinpointing the things i wont let you do that sometimes i foresee the list above..i'll try to change for you..without a doubt youre the one for me.i've known u since i was 19.and now i'm 26 and we're engaged..its not too long till we reach not the end but this beautiful journey in a different phase..i love u!!
Posted by Diyana at 1:21 PM
Monday, October 5, 2009
Posted by Diyana at 12:57 PM
Friday, October 2, 2009
This is my persian cat Zara.She'll be 3 in february..she is the most mengada cat..she eats only royal canin as her staple food,wet food every 3 times a week and treats(candies for cats thats good for her teeth and breath)..her food bekas is made from stainless steel ,she doesnt drink tap water,she has her own cat bed,she has her own so called covered pottie which looks like a house .
Usually zara doesnt eat people food but she has made an exception for my mom's sambal udang..i know it sounds ridiculous but yes zara suka udang!!!.tension je..slalu kena bg dia my share of smabal udang..but of course kena rinse the sambal off skit dulu..then u tgk la dia makan..u bagilah zara fish or sardin mmg she bau je and walk off...when she was younger she loved nuggets from mcdonalds..now it seems tht she got feddup of the nuggets..
before life with zara, i used to be so afraid of cats or other pets..to tell u how i got zara began when asma(my dear good friend)one day aked if i could accompany her to a pet exhibition in putrajaya..she has a cat named tiffany(a ragdoll cat named tiffany because she loves playing with asma's tiffany bracelet),a female cat which was in heat..since ragdolls are from australia,its hard to find the same bred to mate with tiffany.and so we went to the exhibition,sadly we didnt find any ragdolls,but we stumbled upon cute cute kittens..some of them siamese and persian.i immediately fell in love with the persian kittens..tried to pet some of them..they were very playful and naughty(stole my heart)..i called mr boy, and asked if he could buy me one of the kittens.boy said:'u ni skejap je syg kucing tu nanti,tgkla brg2 u,semua kejap je u jaga,then tak jaga'..i stood my ground and promised him tht i would care for the kitten if he bought it for me.(rm 800 for a kitten) mmg i tak mampu nak beli sendiri la kan.
so then,me and asma went back,browsed the internet for cats for sale...at the same time still pujuk2 boy to come and get me the kitten.so the next day(it was a saturday)boy came from melaka, and i brought him to the pet exhibition,i guess he fell in love with the persian kittens too..we took one out of the cage and held and played with it..then boy gave the green light..i asked him which one do we get..he said the one that we've been holding.(the persian kittens semua adik beradik)..and so we payed and brought zara back home..
the first day i brought zara back home,she could easily fit in our palms.and now....she's fat,and about 6kgs..she goes for her yearly vaccination,and she has been spayed when she was about a year old..(mama dont want zara to beranak)and time tu zara started to get in heat..so deicided to spay her..
during the time that i bought her,i was living in cyberjaya,and mama used to be so scared of her if i brought her back during the weekends..mama would scream everytime zara got close to her..and now..2 years plus later,mama loves zara so much..my parents adores her.she roams around the house freely.my dad would play with her evry night before he goes to bed..and my brother danial refers himself as abang to zara..cuteee....
so thats roughly the story about my baby zara..eeverynight she sleeps with me in my room.she gets afraid if there's lightning and thunder,she hates other cats.she loves eating and most of all even though she's living with all of us in the same house,she always2 seems to know that i'm her owner..like a baby knowing who their mommy is despite being cared of by others..thats the best.
Posted by Diyana at 11:43 AM
Thursday, October 1, 2009
kain nikah +sampin
Posted by Diyana at 1:13 PM
raya this year insyallah would be my last raya as a single lady.because our wedding insyallah would be in july..to start off ,3 days before raya on thursday me,my family and immediate cousins and uncles,aunties went for berbuka at the seri pacific hotel...it was fun because it was the 2nd time all of us berbuka together.the food was nice..ate alot like always..the next morning i started to had mild food poisoning..but it got better in the afternoon..later in the evening we went to sunway tower hotel for berbuka..the food was even better..they had oysters and so much to choose from..
the next morning...........terrriiibbble food poisoning..dahla we were going balik kampung in the afternoon..i didnt fast because i had to take pills for it.when we were about to leave darry,my youngest brother came down n told my mom that he was feeling unwell and felt like vomiting..mama forced him to take the same pills as i did..
and so we went off...when we got to nilai the traffic was bad..and so papa told danial(who was driving) to use the old road that passed through seremban..through out the journey i really felt like i had to go to the restroom but i tahan..then at one very moment i saw darry taking out a plastic bag and put it under his face.he vomited!!!!..byk gila ok...like luckily we passed through a petrol station..we stopped ..i rushed to the restroom and did my business..and darry followed through..
by the time we got to the tampin hotel(which was amazingly fully booked during raya(we couldnt even get 2 rooms) me and darry was flat..my parents decided to let us rest in the hotel..and they left to our kampung house which is about 5 minutes from the hotel..
we slept in..turned off the light..i woke up when darry told me he wanted to go buy hundred plus..i forced myself to shower and when darry got back we called my mom to come get us..
she made porridge and fed us..papa insisted that me and darry followed to our kampung house for them to berbuka puasa..
and so we went..but still felt a bit weak.the diarrhea went on untill the 2nd day of raya..that morning we went to boy's house just to get my parents and his mom to know each other..because even though i've been with boy for 7 years..my parents have never met his mom.
i was nervous...but Alhamdulillah everything went well..my parents was impressed how friendly and warm boy's family was..they prepared such nice food with big big prawns..nasibla my tummy wasnt well..kalau tak for sure i would have eaten more..
later in the evening we got back to our house to be greeted by our little princess(my persian cat zara)..boy was she happy to see us after being left in the house alone for 2 nights...
so that was the story of my hari raya this year..now i cant wait to go for all the open houses this weekend..i also feel very satisfied that this year dpt bg mkn2 for my friends during my engagement/open house
Posted by Diyana at 12:41 PM
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
last saturday was my birthday and the day i got engaged..evrything went on as planned.we had sani for the bubbly photog.the event went on as i wanted it except for the terrible make up ..i'm dissapointed with the makeup artists work ..the fact that i could have done better makes me regret every bit ..but i promise myself not to get over upset just because of it.
asma and dzue arrived early,followed by ida..by the time i got ready i was immediately called out of the room for the menyarung cincin..i was nervous..terketar2 nak senyum..but after that was fine..took pictures with boy's family and friends...the food was soo sedap..thanks to abg mi and kak ana's catering..mmg sgt sedap tak tipu..then mak ndak bought a cake for me and adlan ( my lil cousin who turned 8 on the 24th) and all of them sang for us..that was really nice..by evening i was exhausted but i knew i had to keep the pace going to prepare for the bbq later that night..
danial and darimi's friends came for the bbq..sgt meriah..food byk..my friends also came..then later into the night they brought out another cake for me..so i had 2 birthday cakes...mmg penat sgt...had to clean later...really appreciate kak kimah for helping out till late...finally my friends left at about 1am..penaaatt..boy and i terus flat tido..
about boy's hantaran..it was nice..more than i expected..it was gold in color..was very touched by their effort.
Posted by Diyana at 11:40 AM
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Posted by Diyana at 10:51 AM
Engagement day is 9 days away...i feel very nervous..but i have accepted the fact that it would be very simple..i am still comtemplating whether i should invite all my friends or only my close friends..When i look at my dear friends engagement preparations i feel very humble and a bit jealous i must say..but i cant complain because evrything is paid by my parents..my friend could afford to hire professional photogs and maeup artist because she's paying for them..but still she has invited evryone she knows...meriah nya majlis dia nanti..as for me..i've only invited less than 10 friends to come...
i dont even have a photographer yet..but do i really need a professional to take my engagement pictures.plus there wouldnt be any mini pelamin whatsoever.i guess i selalu pujuk my heart and mind in trying to convince myself that all those extra things are not important..just as long as the event goes smoothly and i end up with being baby's fiance.
i want to tell the whole world that i'm getting engaged but i'm shy and sometimes afraid..bertunang tak semestinya confirm kawin..ppl say org bertunang darah manis..i'm worried..knowing me and baby can have serious fights..i'm scared but all i can do is pray that we will reach the final leg of our relationship...
Posted by Diyana at 10:35 AM
Friday, September 11, 2009
The cupcakes above are from cupcakekasih..she's from subang jaya...sayasukacupcake.blogspot.com....check out her blog and u'll be so amaze at how talented she is.
Posted by Diyana at 2:33 PM
For evry women,the perfect wedding has been a dream since childhood..but we have to face the fact that no matter how we plan the perfect day, there would be flaws here and there..In these days, the wedding budget is increasing with time..
To have a well known designer like Rizalman,Radzuan Radzwill,Jovien etc costs too much .some of them easily charging rm15k per dress..For me its ridiculous unless i'm like some rich kid or something where the budget is unlimited..I have to remember to be reasonable and put in mind that i'll only be wearing the dress maybe once.I have checked with friends who are married and this is the case for their wedding dresses.all stored in a box after their wedding..
I have reminded mama to not get over excited and spend too much on the preparations..but i do understand that i'm her only daughter and the first child to get married.i just dont want her to feel the need to live up to other ppl's expectation..i do not want to waste money..the money is better off given to me and baby to help start off our lives.
For our nikah outfit,baby and i went to Jakel and bought the wedding package materials..mine was beaded chiffon with satin silk lining and for baby it was the same satin silk material..the package costs us less than rm500..I am so happy and content with the materials we bought..
I'm planning to send the nikah material to my tailor in Summit USJ..Aunty Derina has been mama's tailor for more than 10 years..the reason i plan to send it to her is because i want a baju kurung modern for the nikah..nothing elaborate..so i figured why spend on a designer just to make a baju kurung modern..
For the reception outfit i'll probably send it to kudin.kudin is radzuan radzwill's assistant.he has done my cousin's reception outfit last year and it turned out wonderful.plus i heard that he charges reasonably and you could give him your budget so that he could design something within your budget.This is a relief.because i am a very simple person..and i plan to have a simple outfit for my reception.
For the door gifts,i know mama has that covered..she wont even listen to my opinions.she has something in mind already which i hope doesnt costs much ..but knowing how my aunts could talk their way into getting my mom to buy over the budget items..i'm worried..
But both of us have agreed on giving eggs and not chocolates.thats a relief..
Today there's a warehouse sale at JW mArriot..dior and other branded item's are on sale..must get baby to come and take me there.maybe get something for out wedding hantaran..he'll save so much if we could get something from the sale.!
Posted by Diyana at 11:24 AM
Thursday, September 10, 2009
2 days ago.followed a dear friend of mine to The Mall...she is a former classmate in mmu and has been there for me through out the years...this dear friend is a year older and the best part is her birthday is on the 23rd of september which is 3 days earlier than mine..we actually have had a birthday party celebration together in 2006 i think...
and now...she's getting engaged too!!..her event is on the 10th of october and mine is 2 weeks earlier..talking about coincidence ...she has been with her bf for 5 years..i know she really loves this guy..they've been together thru thick n thin...i can see that she really loves him and same goes for her bf..
when she told me she was getting engaged...i was excited for her..because i know how it feels to suffer so much all these years and to finally get to the end with that love of yours ...
her engagement preparations are much much grander than mine...she has hired pak abu to design her hantarans..all of us know how much he charges..but no doubt he is good..
when asma went to london 2 months back,dia kirim handbag and belt LV...my god its for her hantaran tau..sedih pulak dgr dia punya hantaran ada handbag LV semua...she's giving her bf shoes and an iphone...best kan...
after the mall,we went to go see her ring..she chose a o.3carat ring with diamond studs at the sides roughly like the ring that i reserved initially(but i bought a different ring in the end)...
now i'm glad i chose something different than hers..
lets move on to her baju tunang..she bought her kain tunang for about rm4k!!..sedih je mengingatkan i bought ready made baju kurung je fr PKNS which costs me rm129...and she sent her kain tunang to Rizman Ruzaini for tailoring which i guess costs another rm2k...haih...bestnyaaa...
oh yes she has a merisik ring too..she bought a cincin belah rotan at bvlgari for about rm2k!! imagine how much she is spending for her engagement compared to mine...tapi at the end of the day,i m happy that insyallah mine would be a simple event.coz wht matters the most is getting engaged to the one i love..not the costs n preparation...
Posted by Diyana at 1:07 PM
Sunday, September 6, 2009
just woke up and started cleaning the room.zara has been bugging me the whole night with her annoying tantrums.one minute she's hungry.the next she's meowing her heart out to get me to let her out of the room.
i was exhausted yesterday.boy came over at 2.30 am.went out to kayu to have sahur with him.got home and showed him the room and immediately rushed to mine and zzzzz.got about 3 hours of sleep since the contractor got here early and started making loud construction noises...showered at about 9.30am and woke boy up..we left the house and headed to pkns with mama tagging along.our mission is to get my baju bertunang and head straight to bsc..and yes pkns was packed .was hard to even walk without bumping into ppl.
After tht, like planned we drove straight to bsc..once we got into Faiq Jewels, makdik,sue and shima arrived ...perfect timing.
immediately asked for the previous sales girl named diana.and she brought out my reserved ring and diamond.instantly mak dik and mama thought there were other prettier rings..
they scouted for endless rings.mak dik showed me a pretty ring.i fell in love with it but the price range was about the same as the one i initially wanted.i thought if i were to buy something else,i would get it only if it were much cheaper ..since evryone thought that my budget for the ring was too extravagant for an engagement ring.
spent hours going back and forth between 'my ring' and other suggestions made by relatives.finally.chose the pretty ring makdik suggested.and i'm happy with it coz actually its prettier than the one i chose in the beginning.
sampin for baby:
after the ring,the next thing to buy was boy's sampin.we went to the ground floor in bsc to the terengganu songket stall..damn sampin are very expensive.luckily uncle nizam's brother knows the owners and we get discounts..akhirnya after deciding on which sampin for boy, we(mama,boy,shima,sue and i) got into boy's car n sped off to kl...destination-jakel!!jam sgt ok otw there...we got there at about 3pm..immediately went to the 3rd floor.sue saw one pretty beaded chiffon and asked the lady how much is per metre.she said rm469 siap dgn kain laki..wahh!!! wedding package!!!..after choosing between a few design.we asked for discounts coz mama know's the owner.and we saved about rm100..
takpelakan kain nikah not expensive.sue has been advising not to waste n try to save where ever we can.baju nikah pon would only be worn once because its white and u would be thinking twice if u were to wear it again to a function.
when were in the car,stuck in the traffic jam,papa called mama.asking us to go buy mandy rice from al rausha.we made our way to jalan damai and bought the mandy rice and headed straight to ttdi to send sue and shima.at this point it was nearly 6pm..
finally reached subang.boy had to go back coz he had buka puasa with his friends(puas dah merajuk and tryied to persuade him to not go)but he still went back... :(
immediately helped mama with preparing food for berbuka.after berbuka mmg mengantok and soooo exhausted...went to bed early..the end.
Posted by Diyana at 10:35 AM
Friday, September 4, 2009
just got a text from my very caring aunty...i call her mak ndak..she is my dads youngest sister...
when she got the news about the engagement she immediately texted me asking what is there that she could help out...she offered a cake for the hantaran but since mak dik has that covered she opted for chocs..homemade chocs!..untungla family baby dpt mkn the chocs!hehehe
then she kept on asking me if there is anything else she could help me out with,if i needed cash ..but takkanla nak mintak cash kan..and so i asked her if she knew any makeup artist that is available for my tunang...
and she got back to me with good news..a friend of hers has already blocked the date for me...sweeet sgt kan my mak ndak...and she said she's covering the cost ...Ya Allah how lucky am i....rasa nak nangis pun ada with her thoughtful gestures in offering to help out where she can..
i guess we have this connection..her childrens are considered close to me since we stay in subang jaya...lidia and adlan has been coming to my house since they were babies...
just hope one day i would be able to return her good deeds...
Posted by Diyana at 4:08 PM
Just found another possible wedding song -Ungu, tercipta untukku
i fell in love with this song while writing in the latest blog...and i realised what the lyrics meant.
The chorus goes like this:
Aku ingin kau slalu,hadir dan temani aku
disetiap langkah yg meyakini ku
kau tercipta untukku
mesti waktu akan mampu memanggil seluruh ragaku
kuingin kau tahu kau satu milikku yg tercipta untukku..
other possible wedding songs:
shania twain-from this moment
bunga and ari lasso-aku dan dirimu
Posted by Diyana at 11:38 AM
This is for MrBoy my boyfriend/bestfriend/lover/future fiance..
How do i start and how do I even explain how happy and blessed I feel,right at this very moment..I'm getting engaged to Boyfriend of 7 years.and to add to it the engagement is going to be on my 26th birthday which is on the 26th of september..2 years back in 2007 ,i casually told Boy that i dream of getting married on my 26th birthday in 2009..
fast forward to 2009 ,i guess the dream is not going to happen but instead i will be getting engaged to baby.
Boy has been talking about marriage alot lately and this year even my parents have been initiating to me about marriage...
then in august before ramadhan he said he talked to his mom and they agreed upon my birthday to come meminang..i was sooo happy...i swore i couldnt sleep tht nite coz i had butterflies!!
..we started panicking because its a month away.Before this, mama has been saying she wants a small and simple event for my engagement.small meaning only her elder borther and sister are invited and same goes to papa's side plus atok and wan of course.she even said 'tak payah hantaran hantaran'...
I got back to boy about the no hantaran because mama said just merisik n tunang terus...we went back and forth between our families about the plans..(it was stressing boy out because he is sooo not the type to discuss about flowers,makeup and stuff).then finally boy said his mother insists on giving hantaran because i'm the only daughter and the eldest and boy is the baby of the family..they want it to be big n special..
Got boy's sister to call mama and they click instantly..they agreed upon sending 5 trays of hantaran which means i have to balas 7 trays.
hantaran boy to me;
1) engagement ring( going to buy tomorrow insyallah at faiq jewels)
2)kain nikah (Going to buy tomorrow at jakels)
hantaran for boy:
1)kain nikah (going to buy tomorrow at jakels)
2)perfume (bought aigner at pyramid!)
3)cake (sponsored by aunty)
5)chocolates (sponsored by aunty)
6)pot pourri (sponsored by aunty)
7)kek lapis (sponsored by aunty)
3 saturdays ago went to faiq jewels in bsc with of course best buddies dzue and asma just to have a look.
were sooo shiny and pretty not to mention expensive..i repeatedly told asma that we have to look at rings within the given budget that boyfriend has specified.huhuh..love la my boyfriend.
ok then asma said something like takpe kita tgk je..i saw one veryy veryy pretty ring.3 square cut diamonds...hmmm...rm18k ok..hehheheh..soooo out of the budget.then they finally brought out rings with unmounted claws.which means i could choose any size of diamond to be mounted on my ring selected..
yes,we found the perfect combination for me...cantik sgtt and the price was still ok..
but the sad part was i couldnt buy it tht day.told the person attanding to us named diana also to reserve the ring for me..had to bring baby to buy it la kan..
tomorrow i'm going to go to faiq jewels with baby ,mama,mak dik,n mak yak..reason of bringing mak dik.mama and mak yak is to get discounts..mak dik knows them
after getting the ring insyallah we r going to jakel to go and get our kain nikah insyallah..really dont want to spend that much on kain nikah but who knows tomorrow if i find something really nice and pricey which i insist of getting..haih risau btol..
Posted by Diyana at 9:40 AM